Had there quietly leave my family in the world , but for day to send her husband to the cemetery , the old man took me must go to his grave . I thought my heart hard enough , you can face the wind and rain outside , not to think of his father again. However, a sudden turn of events and loved ones , let me many years later in the day , or the inexplicable thought of him , I think of the silent father , and his father’s silence.(rechargeable mini fan)
Father’s silence is very special, and most people feel impressive. No matter how the force of life , regardless of how impatient nagging mother , my father has silently bear with silence . Thus , silence, and gradually became my father’s primary awareness .
To be honest, I had thought he was useless . For children pet obedience , obedience obedient to his wife , their parents and siblings are also obedient . Never say half of them do not want to hear, but do not convey a message . What words into his mouth, like entering a safe, Jingui very ! Many years later , I understand this sentence ---- best expression is silent , rather than language.
Father was a talkative person , his mother always said he was a nice guy . In front of the children do not speak half a word , as long as the children say , even make him angry, always gentle smile , without resentment color half points . Evaluation of the father’s neighbors are the nicest people --- most spoiled child. Of course , also the best father. Honest father, because good, honest and kind has been perceived by the people .
Mother was a stronger person. Her work resolutely , thoughtful , quick reaction, all trace of clever speech rate . Thus , the natural home of all , the mother is the main thing the main man . We grew up , my mother is still the case. Thus, we have also complained. I even said that it was not sensible mother squeezed his father , so his father would always be so silent.
So , my mother always said , if she does so in life is to be bullied . In fact , the mother’s strong indeed for us to block a lot of " sand ." For example: in front of the homestead was packed when people do not stay out of the alley , the mother with a man of courage and others argue , do not let my father speak out. At that time , I even said to myself in my heart , I grew up, never looking wimp man, I was asked my mother to succeed, let her be bullied .However, as I gradually grew more and more silent father let me understand. His few words , because he knows and is also the closest person to justify harm . He does not excuse his mother chatter , but Han Han smile, in fact, a greater tolerance . He knew he was wrong without you dispute between relatives. Mother’s nagging mother’s stubborn , he, as a man all know , are understood , are also inclusive . For the mother complained , as a man of silence is the biggest love and tolerance ah.(rechargeable mini fan)
At work, my father was very good, he is mine which was the most money man . His excellent work and his efforts to make progress , good honest neighborhood who has been commendable with Murakami . They say his father was eight sub- boss , can make money . Mother , looking for a good man is such a blessing .
However , the mother is critical of his father . His father despise their parents in front of cowardice , let alone a man in her home the day of gas by the grandmother , sister by a naive child , their husband’s brother ’s gas. After so many years , as long as the mother and we have had the gas, or where not liking , and he resolved not to open, would like to mention , like boiling water , bring this psychological pain of the mother and father care about the past .
So , this time , my father does not always justify , nor speak. He does not smoke , does not drink. This time , he would sit silent side head down firewood stove . The other end , as if to be inserted into the fireplace , the low to the dust . At this time, we are always very sympathetic father. Whispered the mother’s nagging mother’s dance little stubble , unforgiving . At that time , I also blame the father , why do not you stand up for their women backing !
However , after my independent life , I know , what a generous man’s love is. His father does not care , do not complain , do not dispute, no excuse , in fact, it is his wife’s care. Because, one of the parents , he can not complain ; party is hard of difficult wife , he can not dispute hurt his heart. So, he chose silence , chose to work for his mother . This is a man of the people they love how much tolerance and understanding ah.
Since then, the day after his father retired mother is at home to care for family , cooking , washing clothes, for children to see their children . One child grew up under his father ’s careful nursing , the mother not want to do the things he did for her . Perhaps , when the mother has not yet felt the warmth of a generous father to give her to play . However, many years later, his father left, when the mother alone to face , and I learned from her conversation , she got it . However, my father, my father had left silent , never left ......
Many years later , I read in the text of Eileen Chang - Because I love him, love her deeply low to the dust of words . I deeply understand , and there is a love that is quietly bear with silence .
My father , he does not talk, not because he was slight ; he does not talk, not because he was speechless ; he does not talk, not because he did not understand love ; he does not talk, not because he does not excuse . But he knows there is a care called silence. Silence of love is silent and play !
We can not catch the ship hit the earth , we do not control the ruthless abandon , we do not control the pain of scars , not always stubborn and rivalry child . Because life in someone loves you , he only maintain clove aroma, in the solitary night , can be distributed out of the shabby homes in the chest . That kind of wayward inclusive , is silent.
Most love the deep silence, silent silent , no color , foot pity ! The noisy bustle of the world to them yourself ! They let the lake go handsome yourself ! Let the crowd came from a distance or from the side grazed the bar ! I just use four palms, surrounded by a small valley , only our own face in sheer darkness of the storm , in our world, singing a song called warm silence .
Since a long time, I’ve been looking for a reason to explain why I love my relatives, but I can not find , because I can not love you limited to only one reason. We want to serve in silence blossom to blossom to prove their existence. Life is simple. We only have one life, then let us sell it to people who know what’s what . For all irrelevant , do not understand what all the words are from the heart of the show , said the projection, we have chosen silence . Psychological projection for others angry , not too not worth it?
Quiet wordless not fall into gaps, but there is a deeper wide , more clarity lies.(rechargeable mini fan)
Those who endowed the soul of people are good at silence . With patience and silence his father taught him one thing my life ---- silence is the best speech of love ! Thank you for a lifetime of good character moist silence my father !